One of the three children –37.5%– He says that he is subject to comments from uncomfortable or annoying adults. Mentioned in the most frequent situations Phrases such as “kids things”, fine, public criticism And observations are considered unfair. Thus the following is from a study conducted Enco To learn their opinion on their educational situations and the behavior they feel from 500 children and adolescents from all over Spain. The percentage rose to 80% if the respondents are added, the claim to hear these kinds of ideas, or sometimes adults feel “chopping them”, although they also take it as a joke.
The report on Friday said, “Social mobilization leader of education in Madrid, said,” There are other behaviors such as the manifestation of physical abuse or abuse violence towards childhood, but other behaviors. ” Make fun of or shut down shame They are normalized in the community and directly affect the well -being of children They should also be considered violently“.
As always for the question of whether adults talked about you, you don’t like 21,76% He responded to that “Sometimes I talk about myself, but I take it as a joke”; He 16,77% “Sometimes the Teachers I am criticizing or mocking the others “; the other 10,98% He assured that it was his Family He who creates these uncomfortable situations in public. In addition, 20.76% said they were not affected by the first person, but “those who did not want unjust comments about other boys and girls who do not want.” On the other hand, 19.76% said he had never happened to him.
Toron, who supervised the realization of the report, also says 20 Minutos These uncomfortable situations should also be considered a violent, because they evaluate violence as acts of violence. When we do this type of concept, they are hurt, they feel sad, their self -esteem is really mine. That is why we say it. This is a type of violence we need to work, but it is very expensive to recognize it, that’s the problem“.
As for Child psychologist Sylvia Alawa, a child psychologist who does not participate in the study, these results are “reasonable” because in advice “most jobs are done with parents.” Adults “we forget many times that we are” eager to be with children, and the expert emphasizes that many times that the brain speaks with the brain. We do not have enough knowledge about cognitive development and the brain of children. We cannot always adjust what we can hear. When their problems are told to us, we need to be compassionate and asked, and this is very important to them, but I get used to them by saying ‘stupidity’ or ‘children’s things’. Many times it does not come from the evil of adult, but its appearance is to ignore the evolution of children’s evolution and cognitive development. “
Psychologist recommends adults to adhere to the feelings that minors express I understand what you think “check” emotions with type phrases Frustration … ‘or’ I understand that you are worried … ‘”The adult refers to the feeling he thinks that he feels the little ones to combine them emotionally with them.”
Another fact is that the authors underline the study Three of four children say that they never heard of childhood rightsThey do not remember them well, or even if they were treated at school. This decision points out that “most appropriate” and “dangerous”, which indicates that “good treatment is a matter of rights”. In this sense, it is full of “if they do not know their rights, they should not use them or recognize when they are violated.” From education they consider that “emergency” rights “rights” are not on a certain issue in the classroom, but be part of respect and good treatment in all places they grow. “
On the other hand, 28% of the respondents said when he feels the best, “When they leave him alone, but support him when he needs it.”. Young people demand low study and more confidence among themselves, as well as they are taken into account for deciding in educational centers. According to the report, 51.5% of people are “taken into account our plans in school or institution only for some problems”, and 33% of people believe it ”They seem to be listening, but then they do not take the students’ views into account. “
In this sense, Sylvia Alawa recalled that professionals insist on the idea of being professionals Parents should come with “but not excessive protector”. In the children, the study said, “I wish you want to come with me, but don’t press me. Don’t judge me.”
Children, in the study, “I want you to come with me, but don’t press me, don’t solve me”
The minority consider that the minority is experiencing their free time, and the “friends” (25%) company, as well as the “family” (7.3%) in the company (7.3%). When they need help, on the other hand, 77% of their families are looking for first. In addition, like people who treat them well, more than half are responding to “my mother” and 18%, “my father.” “There are more mothers. Parents can do this, but we have not yet reached full equality for parents, though more men are too much -who are more likely to be, who do I feel more bonded?
Another issue that illustrates the report is that 16.37% said they did not understand The language used by politicians or mediaAlmost 14 % said they sometimes did not understand teachers. “We do not speak directly or friendly to them many times, and sometimes children say that we are looking for other notes Social networks“, Adding Toron, when the participants go to them when they collect” transparency “and” intimacy “.
The survey is deepened The minority’s opinion on the design of their schools. The vast majority were not designed in favor of their well -being and that they wanted to have “many elements that different kinds of people”. Glowing Or they were Outdoors. At this point, he regrets many centers built in the decades of the last century of the century, and its architectural style prisons “very similar”. “You have to turn it off. There is further evidence of the importance of that architectural space in learning. We know that the most frequently started in the environment supports more learning than unpleasant emotions. There is no experienced sources for the” Letter, “famous phrase to enter the blood.” “Today we are seen, the oasis are changing, and the ancestors are reformed with more colors and more maps … Like children’s hospitals,” Alava says.
