“I learned to live with death, instead of suffering from it.”

I no longer have time to lose, I have time to enjoy it. This is now the philosophy of Adrian Garcia’s life, which, during Covid-19 Pandemia, lost four of his brothers.

Health emergency has not left physical sequel in many of those who were absent, but also, in every family, after five years, still exist. The management of losses and fencing was vital to confront it.

The epidemic, because we all thought that it was something that would last for 15 days, which would have been very little time or suddenly, began to lengthen, but also began to become a kind of horror movies. In my case, it was this way, “Adrian says joinery.

His brothers Jorge and Alejandro became almost the same time, starting in January 2021; His sister, Ruth and his brother Angel, who was the last to die, followed in April of that year.

Only when I write to you the message on January 1, and tell them that my brother Jorge is wrong, my brother Alejandro writes to me and tells me, “I am also sick, but I go out.” No, he died for two days. “

The service of his brothers was a great challenge, still without vaccines, with saturated hospitals, without medicines and a tour institution after creating oxygen.

There was no medicine or oxygen, get oxygen for a person who demands more than 10 liters per minute, and the tanks end very quickly. Then I ended up buying a tank, renting two and threw them in my car and looking for their whereabouts, because not even you were a specific place, but you had to walk in hunting it. “

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Even when he was in direct contact with two of his brothers, Adrian did not get Covid-19, which is considered lucky to him.

I do not know if I took care of myself well or I do not know what happened … At some moments, we reached the belief that it might be a hereditary thing, which affected us as a brother, “he says.

For him, the loss of his brothers was one of the most tragic moments in his life, which he had to give up his job, to try to leave everything behind.

I left the job because I could no longer take it anymore. I couldn’t carry these looks or these messages “sorry”, and I know that people do it with a lot of heart, with love, but for me they were like reminding me of everything I lived over and over again. “

He faced his pawn, with the support of the world of Tannur, helped him see the situation from another perspective and find the true value of life.

I appreciate the most important moments, such as waking up and knowing that you are alive, or that you have finished today and thanks for the completion of it. I, with my brothers, I will look crazy, but I am still talking to them. I see the sky and every star I call, my dead and revive you. “

At the same time, I can run with a different luck from running. “The epidemic left me a lot of teaching and I think I took it to the positive side,” Adrian, who has put the ego, always strives to move away from negative situations.

Important to me is to be with my death, but they no longer suffer. I learned to live with this death, instead of suffering from it. I suffered from it and it was very ugly, but it wasn’t time to do this. So, five years, I think I carry it there. “

Even with the epidemic and with the serpent, I feel a lucky person. Because I am alive, because I do not miss anything, because I do not have a shortage. Because I also learned that I do not need great things. You need people next to you, support, you need to feel satisfied and do excited things. “

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